Career transitions
Two kinds of staying: decided, or deferred
Staying can be a decision you have made, or one you keep deferring. From the outside they look identical — and from the inside, deferral often feels like patience.
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Insights on career and life transitions
Writing on career change, shifting priorities and the honest self-reflection that can make difficult decisions easier to face.
They draw on coaching conversations, on fifteen years of working with people at a turning point, and on research where it’s relevant.
Reflection and decision-making
Stop Being the Answer: Why Coaching Is the Leadership Skill That Scales
Every time you solve a problem for someone, you reinforce the idea that the thinking belongs to you. The most scalable leadership habit is the one that builds capability in others.
Reflection and decision-making
When Hard Feels Wrong — and Why It Isn’t
Any time you do something that actually matters, it will feel hard. That’s not a warning. It’s a signal you’re exactly where you need to be.
Career transitions
You’re not waiting for clarity. You’re waiting for permission.
The gap between knowing you are ready and actually moving is rarely about capability. It is almost always about permission — the kind you have to give yourself.
More coming. I publish regularly on LinkedIn and occasionally here — on the questions worth sitting with, the patterns worth noticing, and the work of becoming who you’re capable of being. Follow along on LinkedIn